What you're looking for is someone that offers hosting via
virtual, or co-located machines.
VM's are ok for apps using TPS as a backend. However if you are using SQL then you'll need an actual physical machine. VM's don't really have the RAM or CPU allocations to run most SQL engines.
You're also looking for Remote Desktop Access to your VM. You don't want some control-panel thing, you need actual RDA. Then you can install and monitor your NTWS etc.
Of course it doesn't _have_ to be in the Netherlands - it could be anywhere.
Cheers
Bruce