In your attached zip file, on the BrowsePatient procedure,Con:Name column;
the Column Condition is set to :
loc:parent <> 'updatecontact'
So on the UpdateContact form, (when the drop down is set to one, and the Patient tab appears) the BrowsePatient control shows just the name. Which is what I think you want there.
If you extend the condition to
loc:parent <> 'updatecontact' and loc:parent <> 'browsecontact'
then when viewing the BrowseContact browse, where the BrowsePatient appears to the right, you get the same effect.
cheers
Bruce